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爱 * 回家 * 团圆





过年过节,把爱带回家。一家团圆,把爱得气息推高。

香港无线连续剧《爱 回家》第二版,由于缺少爱,缺少家的温情,被逼把马家召回,还为马家添了一个新成员(孙女)-马家好。真的很难想象,一个家,没有爱,会是什么样子?如何团圆?家又如何好起来?

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在世間不聲不語有一種愛
柔韌到叫鐵石種出花開
任我飛不經不覺背包超載
停頓處 你撐住我的感慨

無限暖 最美是這一種愛





在政治上也是如此。

美国两党的初选,出现了反对当权派(Anti-establishment)的现象。民主党的希拉里面对党内强大的反对势力,因为她被认为不够亲民,是华尔街大亨的支持者,也就是选民认为她缺少爱,没有把爱带回家,而她的对手,却激进(progressive)要把爱传给更多人。同样的,共和党的川普,以保守,激进维护美国人利益,异军突起,把爱传给自己人,传给支持者,打动了保守者的心,鼓动他们的爱。

反对当权者,反对主流政治人物,美国人认为,这些政客,只是维护当权者的利益,当极左和极右把他们爱,宣传开来,却反常的非常受到欢迎。爱要这么说?爱要怎么才能到家?为什么当权者无法让人有爱回家的感觉?

在中东,社会次序被破坏,家国不保,哪里有爱可言。因此,难民涌向欧洲寻爱。但是,一大群难民的涌入,欧洲政府和人民吃不消。欧洲人的泛爱已经开始面临考验,他们现在要把爱带回自己的家,而不与他人分享,或者限制泛爱。

在中国,成千上万的普通百姓回家过年,爱和团圆饭融合在一起 - 回家的感觉真好。与此同时,贪官污吏却不把爱带回家,他们把钱,上千上亿的带回家,以财产代替爱,代替团圆。这些非法资产,无法让人有爱得感觉,家的感觉,团圆的感觉。奇怪的是,以‘财’易‘爱’,已经有几千年历史,改也改不了,革命也革不了。爱回家,不是这么简单的一回事!

在台湾,倾向台独的民进党把国民党拉下来。选民倾向相信国民党卖台,出卖台湾的利益,因此,一个对台湾没有爱,即使有爱,也不是出自真心的国民党,不得不下台。这一刻,台湾人根本没有看到国民党的爱,爱回不了家, 国民党的爱到不了台湾人的家,最终的命运就是黯然下台。

在新加坡,最少有一个家庭,爱回不到家。团圆饭变得不团圆。好想有个家,有个美好的家,但是,却偏偏做不到。

珍惜爱,珍惜团圆,珍惜眼前人,家的路才可以走下去。但是,不是每个人都是那么幸运,可以让爱回家。僵硬的制度,缺少人性的处理方式,间接的造成悲剧,酿成不幸,让爱回不到家。14岁学生自杀,给这个家庭造成伤害,春节没有爱,没有团圆,让人叹息之余,还带来什么?陈川仁的三言两语:警方和教育部都需要检讨他们的系统和文化程序。真的能够把爱带回家吗?

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我想要有个家 一个不需要华丽的地方
在我疲倦的时候 我会想到它
我想要有个家 一个不需要多大的地方
在我受惊吓的时候 我才不会害怕






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